Hey buddy! 👋 Today, I’ll tell you about something cool that happens every time you open a website or send a message online — the TCP 3-way handshake. It’s like two computers saying “Hi!” and making sure they can talk before actually chatting.
Ready? Let’s dive in! 🚀
📡 What is TCP?
TCP stands for Transmission Control Protocol.
It helps two computers (or phones) send data in a safe and reliable way.
It’s like a smart postman who:
- Packs your letter 📦
- Delivers it correctly 🧑💼
- Confirms it arrived safely ✅
🤝 What is the 3-Way Handshake?
Before two computers talk using TCP, they first shake hands (not literally 🤭).
This handshake makes sure:
- Both computers are online 🟢
- They’re ready to talk 🗣️
- They agree on how the talk will go 🤝
It happens in 3 simple steps:
| Step | Message Sent | Who Sends | Purpose |
|---|---|---|---|
| 1️⃣ | SYN | Client | Says “Hi, I want to talk!” |
| 2️⃣ | SYN-ACK | Server | Says “Hi, I’m ready! Are you still there?” |
| 3️⃣ | ACK | Client | Says “Yes, I’m here. Let’s start talking!” |
🛠️ Step-by-Step: How the 3-Way Handshake Works
🟢 Step 1: SYN
Your browser (client) sends a SYN packet to the server.
This means: “Hey server, I want to start a connection.”
Client --> Server : SYN (Sequence number: 100)
🟡 Step 2: SYN-ACK
The server replies with a SYN-ACK.
- “Yes! Let’s talk. Here’s my number. Are you still there?”
Server --> Client : SYN-ACK (Sequence number: 200, Acknowledgment: 101)
🔵 Step 3: ACK
The client replies with ACK.
- “Got it! Let’s begin.”
Client --> Server : ACK (Acknowledgment: 201)
🎉 Connection is now ready! Time to send real data like HTML pages, images, or videos!
🧩 Why is the 3-Way Handshake Important?
- ✅ It checks both sides are online
- 🔐 It establishes a reliable connection
- 📦 It sets up sequence numbers to keep track of data
Without this, your data might:
- Get lost 😢
- Be out of order 🥴
- Or go to the wrong place ❌
🧠 Key Concepts to Remember
| Term | Meaning |
|---|---|
| SYN | Start a connection |
| ACK | Acknowledge a message |
| Sequence Number | Unique ID for tracking messages |
| Reliable Connection | Ensures safe delivery |
📥 What Happens After the Handshake?
Now that both sides said “Hi” and agreed to talk…
💡 They start sending data!
- Browser requests a webpage
- Server sends HTML, CSS, JavaScript, etc.
- Client shows it in the browser
It’s like:
- You order pizza 🍕
- Shop confirms it 🍽️
- Pizza reaches you hot and fresh! 🔥
(Use arrows and cartoon-style computers to make it fun!)
✅ Summary: Handshake Makes Talking Safe
The TCP 3-way handshake is how two devices say hello in a smart way before sharing anything.
- 3 steps: SYN → SYN-ACK → ACK
- Makes sure both devices are ready
- Builds trust and starts a smooth conversation
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Written by Vikas Sankhla, Full Stack Developer & Founder of Web Codder.
